Ugh!!

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You drive me crazy sometimes! I mean, I love you dearly, but it is times like this that I hate. The times where I get scolded for doing nothing wrong, for just questioning individual motives, because I don't know what's going on in your brain, or why you are thinking a particular way. We are married, and we do think a like a lot, but I guess tonight is not one of them. I just want to understand your reasoning for your decision! If you yell at me and say "never mind" in your not so popular sarcastic stressed out tone of voice, I won't know the answer, and that will drive me crazy, up the bloody wall crazy. And I will need to find resolution, so I will go to you, and you will resent me for bringing up a subject you ended. And I hate that. We are partners, we are supposed to communicate. If you get upset because you think I don't get it, then maybe you need to take a different approach to the issue instead of instantly huffing off into one of your moods, and making me feel worthless. I'll still probably try to talk to you about this later, because I want to know, and I want to end the conflict over the issue. I guess this is all for now.

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Edit: I am glad we were able to talk, and I am glad I decided to post this (as I don't usually do this sort of thing), as it was a way for me to organize my thoughts, and be prepared to try to resolve this issue. Thinking it out and writing it helped I think. I knew that once we both let our hot heads cool down, that things would be alright again. I love you.